4 Things That Happened After I Met My Twin Flame.
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Doesn’t it seem like everywhere we look these days, in the world of spirituality, someone is gushing about their twin flame or figuring out how to meet their twin flame?
I’m not sure I believe this notion of twin flames is even a thing. When I first started my spirit journey though, I definitely did. Here’s what happened…
1. Nothing.
Absolutely nothing happened. In fact, I realized that the person who I thought was my twin flame wasn’t. He was another person in my life who was a mirror for how poor my own personal boundaries were. He didn’t take me to higher levels of consciousness or enlightenment. We didn’t meet to create some cosmic partnering to end the universe as we know it.
The illusion of the runner and the chaser that has become all too common in twin flame lore was simply a story. The story of why he wasn’t ready, and an excuse to justify my pursuit and interest. Surely, he would come around — after all, twin flames do and end up in romantic partnership, right?
No, not right. They don’t even exist! They are a construct that we, in our humanness, have created to feed the lack of completion we feel.
And, we can say that we feel totally complete and whole, but if we did, I’m not even sure we would incarnate on Earth anymore. We would remember that we are God and this illusion would have ended.
The sooner we can stop buying into the story of a twin flame and someone who we are bound to partner with to raise us to a higher vibration/dimension/plane of existence, the sooner we jump off the Disney bandwagon.
2. I remembered I am whole unto myself.
My soul has not been split into one half and another half — a masculine/feminine, an emanation of yin/yang energy. This belief shows that I am buying into the duality of the 3D plane.
Why would my soul need to split into two pieces to incarnate? Why not four pieces? Why not 56 pieces? Who says that two is the ideal number? And that all souls have evolved and split off from 144,000 original souls? Why would God/Source/Spirit make 144,000 souls to begin with? Is God obsessed with base 12 numbers?
Maybe… we do have a base 12 system to tell time.
But, I simply cannot believe in the teaching that gives me really specific numbers and values.
It doesn’t make sense, and seems completely arbitrary. Almost as arbitrary as writing an article based on a list of four things. I just made up the four. It seemed like enough to get my point across.
Did God need 144,000 souls to get the point across to humanity?
3. It also dawned on me that none of this is real.
This world that we live in is a hologram. It is a magical light show that isn’t actually here.
We are imagining it all, as we are nestled up safe and sound with our dude, G.O.D.
We are dreaming.
Even our waking state is a dream.
Our ego is telling us that we are here and that all of this is real.
But, if we believe that the dreams we have at night, while we are asleep, are merely the projection of our minds, how can we believe this is real?
Our entire world is composed of these holograms. We see it all the time in nuanced photography where a galaxy looks exactly like our eyeball. Or, the pattern in a flower exactly matches that of a cell replicating. The macrocosm and microcosm are the same. We just can’t zoom out far enough from our human perspective to see the big picture.
If we are dreaming at night and these dreams are projections of our mind, can’t we reason that our waking life is merely a projection from something or somewhere bigger than us?
Yeah, I’m saying we aren’t even here.
So, if I’m not here, how can my twin flame help me reach some kind of point of completion or higher level of spiritual awakening?
4. I realized a twin flame is not required for a spiritually conscious relationship.
I can have a partner who is not my twin flame (for reasons already discussed) yet be totally amazing. He, in my case, can be a reflection for me of where I want to grow and evolve. All his annoying bits are shreds of myself that I am unhappy with, projected on the outside (remember the hologram?).
He doesn’t have to sit and hold my hands and meditate with me, creating a cosmic, interlocking sphere from our third eyes through our chakra systems into the Earth grid and into the galactic interface of humanity to be exactly what I need or want in a partner.
All he has to do is be whole unto himself. He does his stuff, takes care of his weird projections that come out and make it seem like I am the problem, while I’m in the other room doing the same thing.
And, he gives me ample opportunities to practice forgiveness. The choice is mine and only mine.
In each moment, I get to decide whether or not to see this person as a projection of me and a part of me (remember, we’re all nestled up with the Notorious G.O.D. anyway) and forgive.
Then, I’ll eventually remember that this is all an illusion and I’ll actually have an opportunity to leave our “psycho planet,” as one of my favorite authors, Gary Renard, calls this place. But, if I am sitting around thinking about or waiting for this twin flame to appear, I’m merely trapping myself in the illusion.
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Sara Hocking is a keeper of secrets, believer in magick, and Spiritual Alchemist. Her work is a catalyst for others to align with their soul’s purpose and to delve into personal transformation. She strives to help her clients transcend their limitations and co-conspire with the Universe to create awesome lives. Sara loves to work with the ‘weird’ kids and help their parents understand and support their unique needs. To connect with Sara, you can find her at her website, Facebook page, or join her Facebook group, The Alchemist’s Lounge.
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