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Returning to Self Through the Twin Flame Reunion.

“And I’d give up forever to touch you
‘Cause I know that you feel me somehow
You’re the closest to heaven that I’ll ever be
And I don’t want to go home right now

And all I can taste is this moment
And all I can breathe is your life
And sooner or later it’s over
I just don’t wanna miss you tonight

And I don’t want the world to see me
‘Cause I don’t think that they’d understand
When everything’s meant to be broken
I just want you to know who I am” ~ Goo Goo Dolls

The journey of the twin flame reunion is not just a physical journey towards another person, although the introduction of a physical person into your life can be a trigger point that introduces this energy or vibration into your awareness.

The twin flame reunion journey is actually all about You, and the reunion or unification of the Divine Feminine and Sacred Masculine within you. The twin flame journey is in reality a journey of and into the self, for what we are looking for on the outside is actually contained within us, and the union we seek is the union that must first take place within us.

The unification of the Divine Feminine and Sacred Masculine aspects within ourselves, regardless of gender, is work we are all called to do in these times.

The true twin flame reunion is symbolic of the split within us, and illuminates for us the passage of reunification.

As that which is above is as that which is below, and that which is within is also synonymous as that which is without, when we achieve balance of the dual nature within us and present ourselves to the world and life, as unified, balanced (embodied), whole selves, we start to manifest on the outside a true twin flame relationship or reunion.

This is not a reunion of two halves (one masculine and one feminine) who must join together to be complete, but a union of two whole embodied beings who are already complete within their own right.

Two beings who have done the work within themselves and reached unification (or the alchemical marriage) within, and then come together as two complete whole beings in order to work and manifest a dual creation together as part of their soul mission or contract in this lifetime.

This pairing then becomes the manifestation of two complete beings combined (the alpha and omega), in order to dispel the myth of duality. This is the true dual flame of embodiment and the holy grail or ascension process we have all heard about. 

Ascension is not about rising purified from this world, it is about embodiment, about making Spirit embodied, spirit and matter becoming one. The state of heaven or enlightenment is here now, this is it. 

All that is required is the ability to dispel the myth of duality (Devil energy), and replace it with the truth, which is unity or oneness (God consciousness), which interestingly enough is why one of the names of the Devil in the Bible is Legion, because it clearly states and illustrates for us the truth.

That the Devil is a direct manifestation of our separation consciousness (the idea that we are many, hence the name Legion), and that the cure, or the illumination that will dispel this darkness or energy, is for us all to move into unity consciousness or the knowledge of our state of oneness. 

The idea that the Devil is a separate identity or consciousness outside of God or Source, and that it is inimical to Man is an illusion of the 3D world and a consciousness we are moving away from as we head towards the truth of unity. It is also no accident that the Devil card in the tarot deck is card number 15 in the major arcana, 15 reduces to 6 which is the number of the Lovers card.

When we master the truth behind Devil energy, we come to the vibration and frequency of love. The two figures which were chained and bound in the Devil card are now free and equal co-creators (twin flames) under divine guidance.

The mistaken knowledge of twin flame reunions is that this is something that will happen outside of ourselves. That we are one half of a whole, and that we only have one part of the equation, and that the missing part resides in someone else, apart from or outside of us.

This knowledge is only part of the truth, for in truth, we are destined to become whole complete beings within, regardless of gender. Equal parts, honored and used together, or in turn, according to the different energies and situations present in our lives.

We fail to develop spiritually if we are waiting or longing for other people to come and fill us up, or complete us in some way. We have the ability, in fact this is our birth right to become whole complete beings in our own right, and this work is done through the unification or coming together of the dual natures inside of us. 

We see this truth manifested in the outside world currently as all the interest or obsession in twin flame reunions and the movement towards gender fluidity. The reason behind the prevalence of these two movements is because the time is right, now, for humanity to begin the work of inner unification.

Unification starts within us, and then it flows out to and manifests in the outside world. And this will not just be reflected in our own personal love stories. This truth is bigger that that.

This unification within us will flow into all aspects of the outside world, and will start the process towards each of us developing the gift of discernment, which will give us the ability to see beyond the illusion of duality that we are confronted with on a daily basis.

We will learn to see into and through the things of this world, to the truth (God or Source energy), instead of just looking at them and therefore being deceived by the look of how things appear to be (manifestation of Devil energy) in this state of duality. But this great work must start first within us.

Of course, there are many challenges or obstacles that reside within us which hinder our journey into unification. It is the great work of our lives to identify (for seeing things is crucial) and uncover or heal these challenges and obstacles. If we feel we are ready, or our soul feels called to do this work, then all we need to do is to enter into a state of willingness.

Ask whoever or whatever you believe in (God, Source, Angels, Universe, etc.),  to illuminate the challenges within you that require transmutation. Willingness is a state of being that enables us to look inside ourselves and work on our patterns and structures or beliefs that no longer serve us.

As we have asked, so shall we receive, and fortunately for us, life will become our mirror. And it is to our outside life that we can look to see what patterns within us require challenging in order to change.

It is the very circumstances of our life that often throw us out of balance, or momentarily throw us into darkness, that will point the way to our realignments that need to take place and our path to regain balance.

When we are thrown into darkness, often we are required to open our heart and find a new way of thinking and being, in order to move forward again. No matter what is occurring in our lives, be it with people, situations or things, these occurrences  are never about the other people, they are always about what resides within us.

We need to become comfortable about always asking ourselves the same question: What is it inside of me that has allowed this situation to develop? How can I use this situation to walk the path towards my healing and wholeness?

These fires of darkness, or even the dark night of the soul, are indeed the flames of transformation, and point the way towards our unification process. When you feel the heat of a transformation surround you, do not fight it, do not sedate yourself with outside influences such as alcohol, drugs, love, etc. Enter the fire,  open your heart, and most of all, allow yourself to feel it fully.

To feel is to learn,  and although much focus is put on the crown chakra in our present world and the knowledge that can come to us through the mind, true learning is found through the opening of the heart chakra, as the light of Source (Sun or masculine energy) is brought down from the mind and the light of Mother (Moon or feminine, kundalini energy from the root chakra) is brought up from below, and both are joined and mixed together to be sent out into the world from the space of the heart and the heart chakra.

Love is the highest vibration of all, and when we learn to operate fully from our heart chakra as a whole embodied being, that is when we will reflect this manifestation into our physical world as a dual flame relationship or union.


Kim Turfrey is a mother and lover of life who lives in New Zealand and has spent a lifetime working with plants as well as Earth and Spiritual energies in order to find healing for herself and others. Being born with the gift of disability has enabled her to see the world through different eyes, and develop a deep love and gratitude for life. She works with people all around the world through the vehicle of her business Confirmations of Self, and empowers them with sets of tools that enable them to identify and move through the current and future challenges they face in the unification process. If you would like to contact Kim for enquiries about this work, you can get hold of her via email.


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