Can We Meet Each Other Fully in Our Love? {poetry}


We deserve to be met knee-deep in the truth of all that we are.  Not half-met, but fully met. Fully met by everything that we are, fully owned and fully loved.

Good and bad, beautiful and ugly. High and low vibration. Without judgment. With acceptance, understanding and love.

I need to ask myself, do the people I bump up against, in this journey I call life, resonate with me and honor who I am? Do they resonate with what I truly desire for me?

In saying this, it is not for me to judge who another person is or where they are, or the path they walk in this life. But in dealing with my relationships with all the souls I interact with, and in particular those I choose to be in a romantic relationship with, I need to ask myself if they honor my highest desire for my life.

I cannot change another person, so in my relationships it is not for me to look at them or their actions, but to look at myself. How am I honestly honoring and loving myself in this interaction and this relationship? How do I feel when I engage with this soul? It’s about becoming conscious and present in all my interactions in every now moment with the souls I am in contact with.

It’s about asking myself, without judgment on anyone involved, how I choose to feel and the choices I will make moving forward.

In the observance or the act of watching myself in every now moment, and every interaction with other souls, I can go within and make a new choice in line with what I truly desire. I can never change another person, nor should I even want to. But by being consciously involved, I create a moment for myself to make a choice. A choice in alignment with what I truly desire to create and manifest in my life.

I can change myself. That’s all I can do. And I do it by consciously observing how I am feeling around this person in every now moment. In this act, of conscious engagement, I then create the power to make a new choice. I am, or become, fully aware of the interactions I am surrounding myself in.

I can then choose on the basis that I am a sovereign human being with the desire to be met on an even playing field. The desire to be met by others right where I am standing, and right where I choose to be.

People will meet me where I am. How I engage in relationships is a test of how much I have met myself. How sovereign I am. How strong I am in my self-belief to be able to stand fully in the power of myself and my love when engaging romantically with another human being.

The more I practice my sovereignty inside romantic engagements,  the easier I will find it becomes to authentically stand in my truth in every relationship I have. The one that will test me the most in my authenticity is my romantic partnerships.

How much have I met myself? How much do I honor my right to be loved? In all my relationships, I need to be fully aware that no one is doing anything to me, I am not a victim. I am choosing, consciously or not, to engage with this person. I need to be fully aware of this truth.

If I am involved in a negative relationship, I choose to meet that soul in that place and engage in that dance with them. The responsibility is all mine. This truth is empowering. If I become conscious in my relationships, I give myself the gift of choice. The choice that becomes available is the one where I choose myself.

I stand in the power of my sovereignty and I claim my right to live authentically, and as I pass this initiation of the power of my choice, I will find it easier and easier to make this choice over and over. But I can only meet people deeply in my relationships as deeply as I have met myself.

To have that power of choice, the choice of what we wish to feel in our daily lives, means that we must be conscious of how we are feeling in our every now moment. We are choosing anyway, but if we observe ourselves, then consciously we can choose or make choices that are in alignment with the highest desires we hold for ourselves.

What do we desire? What are the highest ideals I hold for my life? If I observe in my every now moment what feelings I am bringing to the table, I empower myself to make choices.

I can’t walk away from my interactions with people, judge where they are at, and say “Oh, they are negative” or “They are low-vibrational.” That is their personal journey, and it is not for me to say with judgment what that journey means for them, but it is my choice to engage with them. They do not do anything to me, I make choices either consciously or unconsciously.

It is only by choosing to observe myself from a conscious point of view that I allow and accept my feelings in that moment, and then give myself the space to choose if this is an interaction I desire to remain in or not.


Will you come find me
In this field where I sit?
What will you bring me?
Will you bring me
The truth I desire
Most of all to see?
Will you mirror back to me
All the things
I have loved about myself?

Can you come
Naked and vulnerable
Open and bare?
Will your soul
Meet mine
And see
What I have seen
So long ago?

Can you meet me here
With love?
Can you be open?
Will you be afraid?
Will you open yourself
With truth
And walk the path
To my heart
Which I have laid bare
Open for you?

Can you meet me here
Where I desire to be?
Here lying
In the grass
By the water
Under this tree?

Do you see me here?
For I am not hidden.
I lay myself out
Always for you.

I was waiting there
Where I used to be.
But now I desire
That you meet me here.
In this new place.
Where I live.
And you live.
And we live
There still.

Are you capable
Of meeting me there?
Can you see everything
That I saw?
The one
That I know
is you.
Can you see that soul?
Everything I see
And saw
You to be.

Are you willing to know
And feel
All of me?
Can you meet me there
Here in this place
Where I desire to be?
In this field
By this water
Under this tree?

I will meet you there
Where we both
Once again
Agreed and desired to be.


Kim Turfrey is a mother and lover of life who lives in New Zealand and has spent a lifetime working with plants as well as Earth and Spiritual energies in order to find healing for herself and others. Being born with the gift of disability has enabled her to see the world through different eyes, and develop a deep love and gratitude for life. She works with people all around the world through the vehicle of her business Confirmations of Self, and empowers them with sets of tools that enable them to identify and move through the current and future challenges they face in the unification process. If you would like to contact Kim for enquiries about this work, you can get hold of her via email or Facebook.


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