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A Holler From The Heart In 2016.

No more of how to do, become, or get happier in 2016. No more of let go of or incorporate this or that. I’m into the minimalist concept that is everything there ever was: self-love. I guess it is my list of one. May we indulge in it and saturate ourselves.

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The Worth Of Tears.

I'd become so accustomed to trying to live up to what other people thought strong meant, I forgot how to embrace the paradox. Softness and hardness, masculine and feminine, assertion and surrender, the warrior and the caregiver, we need both in order to be whole.

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The Mother Of All Wounds: Grief And The Loss Of Feminine Divinity.

Give up hope, they say. This is as good as it gets, they say. She was too weak, too emotional, and too quiet to protect you anyway. We will allow your bodies and minds to be supported by our knowledge, though we will pathologize every part of your feminine being. How progressive we have become! ...

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The Crippling Pursuit Of Purpose, And 3 Steps To Find Yours.

Because when you are living life in this manner, you will start to feel absolutely amazing, and not for one moment will you worry about whether you are on purpose or not, because you will be so present with each moment, so enraptured with how you show up in your life, that wondering whether you ...

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My Sacred Scar: From Brokenness To Wholeness.

The real transformation, like all matters of depth and substance, occurs beneath the surface. It occurs when you are deep in process. It occurs when you are steeped in forgiveness. It occurs when you are rooted in radical self-love. It occurs when you are wildly accepting of every ounce of your life.

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Let Love’s Fire Burn Away Your ‘Me’.

I asked you for a drink and, though you were shy, I knew that you were ready and, finally, so was I. So together we sat and took sips of wine. And also, I drank you in, after nine years, for the first time.

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A New Year’s Manifesto To Kickstart The New You.

This year, I choose to prioritize myself. Healthy helpful habits? Check -- but with a stronger mindset, one that accepts and accelerates towards truths that grow my soul, so I can show that in 2016, I am a battle cry, a stubborn light, a whispered riot ready to transform words and wonder into a ...

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Surviving With A Broken Heart.

Take the opportunity to face some unpleasant truths that will ultimately help you heal. Maybe, like me, you notice that your devotion to the love for this person was covering up some of your own unresolved issues? You notice that in spite of having 500 Facebook friends and radiating smiles ...

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An Open Letter To Those Who Would Diminish My Fire.

I have finally figured out that all of my life has purpose, and I will no longer try to sit on the things that I feel ashamed of or that feel uncomfortable. I will not rise above them, pray over them, or seek to destroy them. I will allow them to teach me something I need to know. I will ...

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The Key To The Broom Closet: Liberating Your Witch’s Soul.

Witch, I call you out. Start now. Don’t wait. Your soul is waiting so patiently to be liberated. Whatever condemnation comes from friends, family, or society is nowhere near as damaging as living in that too-small space.

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