Get comfortable with the discrepancies. Drink in the dissonance. Learn to love the freedom in the floundering. Don’t stop the story short.
If we want to change our life, we have to believe that it is possible. To get closer to our dreams and to what sounds right, we first need to become blank pages. We need to get rid of everything that's not us. We need to close all the chapters of our lives that we have outgrown.
I may have played you a sentimental tune -- in remorse for all that you have lost, while you were focusing on the right feelings for the wrong person. This song would not come from a place of hurt, but from a place of wonder. As I wonder why you do not see in yourself what I see so deeply in you.
If we can observe an instinct, emotion or quality through the lens of having both a positive and negative expression, we can build our discernment in any given circumstance to aid in reclaiming our sovereignty through trusting our inner sight. Here are a few examples of how we can use this tool ...