To move on means coming to terms with the fact that our family has let us down... so we are no longer held back from the residue of our trauma.
You are not defective, my dear one, Not a burden, Nor do you struggle alone.
You have lost love, and it hurts; but you will find greater love, and it will be worth the wait. Your heart is open, and it scares you to death -- let it. Welcome those feelings, invite them to sit down and stay awhile; look fear in the eyes and tell it that you are going to love anyway. Please ...