Please run as fast as you can from anyone who would rather you be nice over being real. That said, being real is not an excuse to clobber people!
How do we speak, not to the defenses and the armor, the puffed chests and bolstered cases, but to the innocent creatures beneath, rattled and confused? How do we step into the battlefield with curiosity, not to fight, but to call one another home? How do we call each other back to our own ...