Please run as fast as you can from anyone who would rather you be nice over being real. That said, being real is not an excuse to clobber people!
That’s precisely how a narcissist and a low self-esteem individual can be magnets to one another. Both see the golden luster of the other, and want to catch it to prove themselves that they are able to be partnered with very attractive people.
Love is not about possession. Beauty cannot be captured. I've been entranced by this idea of immortalizing the fleeting moments of joy in my life, but the pursuit of holding them has made me seasick, and nauseated with the butterflies of truth swimming inside me.