I ask her to trust that desire, without the great lover, without the 'right' body, without the permission from anyone else but her own.
I want to be messy, and yearn for and feel what it is to be in a relationship that yearns right back. No longer alienating men, but inviting them in.
Create what you desire by taking your time and saving your sex for someone who honors you, instead of that which gives you a hint of flattery and desire.
Society betrayed you too. Our hatred of sex, our shame, created a system which taught you it was acceptable to hide, then act out.