Do you want the world to be more peaceful? For us all to get along? Well then, guess what? We need to get much better at fighting... towards a clear goal.
I shared my 'me' and you gave me your 'you' and we became 'us'. We became an 'us' that had lines and edges and soft corners and overlap and space.
For the record, keeping your heart wide open during an argument is crazy-difficult. It means that you stay in the conversation, with receptivity, without defense, without attack, without judgment, and you just listen. It means that you stay connected not only to the bigger and more enlightened ...